- Acknowledge the commute. Recognize that your student is spending time waiting for the bus or train to get to school. Help by checking up on the traffic and bus/train schedule. Assisting in the commute will help your student feel that you think their commute is important to you.
- Acknowledge your student’s commitment to academics. Open your flexibility for family household responsibilities because college curriculum is more demanding than high school. Be proud of your student’s academic accomplishments.
- Be alert to stressful times. Midterms, finals, group projects, and quizzes are very stressful for your student. Lightening the load at home by taking over chores, providing treats, or filling the gas tank during tough times are much appreciated by your student.
- Encourage your student to make friends at Rutgers by staying on campus during athletic events and other student activities. Students feel more committed to college when they’re involved more on campus.
- Be aware of campus news and events. By acknowledging the importance of what’s happening at the university, your students will too.
For more information on transitioning to college for students and their family members, please visit the Rutgers University New Student Orientation website.
